When you have been wounded or betrayed, there is nothing more difficult than finding someone whom you can trust to recount your story; someone who will sincerely listen, support, then champion your cause for soul-restitution and guidance towards rebalancing your life again.

...and then you realise that trying to reason with hurricane season is only going to leave you feeling wrecked.

With PLUTO/ERIS involved in this MER/MARS-NN square, the triggers of anger and expressions of rage/violence are merely an unconscious attempt to act-out, or re-enact our unhealed trauma via others in our world.