“As long as you keep secrets, suppress information, you are fundamentally at war with yourself. The critical issue is allowing yourself to know what you know. Takes an enormous amount of courage."

Excerpt: "....So here you are. Cancer in the first wants to bolster up your body armour, show them how tough you are given your volatile nature, your moods, your touchiness, your inimitable need for privacy, your pace, your entire emotional ecosystem. Capricorn in the seventh demands some seriously adult relating, without any schmaltzy sentimentality. Love must have structure. Care must have boundaries. Intimacy must have agreements, timetables. Sex has to be expected. It's the duty. On top of this, the cost of closeness must be met without manipulation..."

Excerpt: "...So here’s the straight ending. The voracious, somewhat soulless social machine will never love you back; it will only manage you through material rewards and punishments, and it will chew you up and spit you out the second you stop being useful. This Full Moon is the moment you notice the horrendous trade-off you’ve been making: public belonging in exchange for private aliveness. Your fix is not to make a dramatic exit or a scorched-earth manifesto. Relax. All it's going to take is a choice that sets the bounds on how you will move forward: you set the terms of..."