angstoic.com Astrologer, Ang Stoic
JUNO in Sagittarius, quincunx Jupiter in Cancer, squaring Chiron–Eris in Aries, with Saturn in Pisces running a water trine through the whole configuration. This weekend floods the fires.
One word comes to mind: honouring agreements.
Ok, two words, but emphasis on ‘agreements’.
Integrity means your word and your life actions point in the same direction. Your word and your outcomes sit in complete alignment. Your existence either embodies your deepest values or it doesn’t: walking your talk, as they say.
You commit to a thing, you do the fucking thing.
None of the exalted myth-making.
None of the “I meant well” crap.
Keeping agreements is the foundation of good relationships, successful projects, any kind of leadership worthy of respect. Break them consistently, and the filth spreads into everything.
Overcommitment is avoidance masquerading as aspiration. You chase thrills and spills, stack on more projects, say yes to everything that makes you feel significant for five minutes — but underneath that frantic fire of truth is something you’d rather not face: the shame of inadequacy, of inferiority, of not being enough. Overpromising, underdelivering. Spiritual bypassing. It’s the Sagittarian shadow.
As long as other people insulate you from the consequences of your broken word, you never have to feel how you’re letting them down. Family members, employees, lovers, all become the circus crew following your horseshit with a shovel and dustpan, cleaning up the mess so you can keep bloviating… bloating… floating in that inflated Jupiterian self-image. They carry the shame you refuse to feel.
Juno in Sagittarius squaring Saturn. Dispositor Jupiter squaring Chiron/Eris. The whole thing is screaming: enough. Relationships demand truth now, not more pledges. No more skating on your good intentions – only on whether you showed up when it counted.
Saturn in Pisces trine Jupiter strips away padding. The consequences you outsourced must come home to roost. You have to hit rock bottom with yourself – really feel the shame of disappointing others, how you’ve hurt them, the distrust you’ve garnered. You dread that if you see how untrustworthy you’ve been, you’ll lose everyone. That feeling of dread is projection. Your own reflex, when you perceive someone as untrustworthy, is to let the relationship go. You assume everyone operates as callously as you do.
Here’s the paradox: that which you’re organised around never feeling is the very thing that intervenes to speed up your recovery. You have to be broken open by shame. People want desperately to avoid it, but shame can save your life when you experience it directly, in the company of those you’ve harmed.
You need wrathful compassion in your corner — people savage enough to say: “You’ve been a fucking arsehole. It’s about time you came down off your high horse, assuming the normal rules didn’t apply to you. Shut up and suck it up. You’ve hurt me, and I’m not going anywhere.” Harsh, but it’s medicine. If you say one word in your defence, you shut down the healing. Receive their truth non-defensively, with gratitude, or you’re finished — not just with that person, but with everyone watching. The word gets out. People will know you are exactly what they suspected.
Forgiveness will sort itself out in due course. Right now, the lying has to stop. Forgiveness can actually shield you from feeling the shame you’ve caused – it lets you off the hook too soon.
Redemption comes only through the interaction itself: when the people you betrayed watch you stay present for the consequences instead of bolting. That suffering opens the heart. That suffering is what makes contrition real. Your word starts to weigh something again once you stop running from the weight of what you already owe.
Or you can just die.
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