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The Venus-Mars cycle, occurring every two years, provides a compelling snapshot of our evolving approach to intimacy, sexuality, and connection. More than an ordinary planetary pair, Venus/Mars serves as our interrelational mirror, reflecting the subtle and not-so-subtle adaptations that shape how we relate to one another. Astrologer Reinhold Ebertin succinctly defines this cycle as embodying “the impulse to love” and “passion,” illuminating both the constructive and disruptive sides of desire. The recent cycles, starting with Virgo in 2015 and shifting into Aquarius in 2022 and 2024, mark a striking departure from the passionate and intimate, veering instead into the realms of the analytical, cerebral, and, dare I say, clinically detached. This is no accident; it’s a reflection of the profound socio-cultural changes driven by technology, ideological shifts, and our collective response to an increasingly complex world.
From Duty to Detachment: The Virgo Influence
The Venus-Mars synods in Virgo during 2015, 2017, and 2019 grounded relationships in the practical and tangible. Virgo, as an Earth sign, is not particularly interested in the florid displays of romance. Instead, it values consistency, predictability, and efficiency. Under Virgo, love is seen as a duty to be fulfilled, a structure to be maintained, and a task to be approached with precision. In this sense, Virgo’s influence leaned into relationships that were functional and supportive but often devoid of overt passion or spontaneity. This was a time when stability was paramount, and relationships were meant to work as well-oiled machines, fulfilling roles and responsibilities.
These Earth-bound cycles encouraged a model of love where intimacy was embedded in routine and security. This was a love that was methodical and industrious, prioritising tangible outcomes over emotional fulfilment. It was, in many ways, a response to societal anxieties that craved structure amid chaos. But Virgo’s influence, while reliable, can be emotionally restrained, with its propensity to overanalyse and its reluctance to embrace the unknown. The idea of love here was almost transactional — a partnership based on mutual benefit and careful attention to the fine print.
Enter Aquarius: The Rise of the Radical and Detached
Then came Aquarius, and with it, a seismic shift in the Venus-Mars dynamic. The cycles beginning in 2022 and continuing into the 2024-2026 episode, signalled an abrupt transition from the concrete and pragmatic to the abstract and idealised. Aquarius is an Air sign, and it’s as far from Virgo’s practical and grounded approach as one can get. Aquarius values independence, innovation, and the freedom to explore. Under this influence, relationships became less about duty and more about individual freedom. The Aquarian Venus-Mars cycles have brought forth an era of intellectual partnerships, where mental connection often outweighs physical closeness.
This is not the Aquarian energy of the flower child era, but rather a starkly futuristic version that is deeply entangled with technology, ideologies, and a persistent scepticism of emotional intimacy. The emphasis on independence and a cool detachment has created a landscape where relationships can feel almost mechanical — utilitarian unions that prioritise ideas over passion, and intellectual pursuits over physical connection. This is the influence that celebrates polyamory, non-traditional relationships, and even a kind of neo-asceticism where sexuality is more theoretical than felt. In this world, emotions can be seen as cumbersome, something to be analysed rather than experienced.
The Impact of Aquarius: Cold Calculation in Relationships
As Aquarius governs this cycle, relationships have taken on a tone that is almost clinical. The icy cold Aquarian influence pushes for unmitigated equality, but it’s an equality that often lacks any favouritism, warmth or tenderness. Aquarian love is fundamentally impersonal — it’s about the collective, the shared ideals, the sense of belonging to something bigger than oneself. But in its drive to build a new model of connection, Aquarius risks losing the essence of intimacy. Physicality becomes secondary, a mere byproduct of a connection that is more ideological than emotional.
We’re witnessing a trend where romantic interactions are increasingly shaped by technology, with attraction often governed by algorithms and interests sustained through shared intellectual pursuits rather than physical encounters. Passion has transformed from a raw, cinematically visceral desire of bygone eras and Hollywood novelas, but rather an avidity for utopian ideals and a fascination with the abstract, the unconventional, and the queer. This shift mirrors the burgeoning influence of online dating and virtual connections, which have created new pathways for forming relationships that are often detached from traditional physical interactions.
This evolution also aligns with the rise of DEI initiatives in love and art and the gradual mainstreaming of LGBTQ+ culture, which have expanded the definitions and expressions of love and identity into a whole new zone. These changes have fostered a collective re-examination of the fluidity of gender, sexuality, and belonging, creating a landscape where non-traditional and non-binary expressions of self are not only accepted but celebrated. The experimential and curious Aquarius (a-queerie-ass) Venus-Mars cycle dovetails with these shifts, favouring intellectual engagement, eccentricity, and communal ideals over conventional romance. It’s a landscape that increasingly prioritises identity, inclusivity, and progressive values, transforming the way we approach connection and intimacy in a world that is both hyper-connected and paradoxically detached.
The Aquarian Venus-Mars Cycles: Radical Innovation or Relational Sterility?
One cannot discuss this transition without considering the broader context. The activation of the Jupiter-Saturn Grand Conjunction at 0° Aquarius in December 2020 set the stage for a radical rethinking of societal structures. Venus and Mars in Aquarius tap into this energy, amplifying the push towards reform and innovation in terms of how we get excited with the world around us. Pluto’s recent hoverings near these degrees have brought a darker tone, highlighting the shadow side of these rapid changes. We’re grappling with a world where relationships can feel almost transactional, where personal connection is sacrificed on the altar of progress and intellectual purity.
Aquarius, with its focus on collective ideals, is inclined towards relationships that prioritise group identity over personal intimacy. It fosters a kind of connection that is less about the individual and more about the archetype — less about who you are as a person and more about what you represent within a broader social movement. This Aquarian cycle is almost paradoxical; it offers freedom but often feels limiting, as the emphasis on ideas and detachment can leave little room for the messy, visceral nature of true emotional connection. We see this reflected in the rise of relationships that are more about shared interests or political alignment than genuine emotional compatibility.
This second Aquarius Venus-Mars cycle pushes the boundaries even further, forcing us to confront the tensions between radical detachment and traditional values. The square to Jupiter in Taurus amplifies this clash, pitting Aquarius’s quest for liberated, ideologically driven relationships against Taurus’s desire for stability, loyalty, and a more conservative view of intimacy. Jupiter in Taurus amplifies themes of security and tangible love, clinging to a time-honoured approach that celebrates connection through presence, physicality, and reliable devotion. But Aquarius is all about disruption, and under this aspect, we’re asked to let go of these conservative leanings in favour of an abstract, communal, and perhaps emotionally sterile ideal.
This cycle, with its tense square to Jupiter, isn’t subtle; it exposes the friction between progressive ideologies and the conservative morality that still holds sway for many. Aquarius would have us believe that connection can be achieved through shared ideas and collective identity alone, but Taurus balks, asserting that love requires more than intellectual alignment—it demands emotional and physical presence. In pushing for independence and universal connection, Aquarius effectively tests our comfort zones, asking us to abandon the security of deep, personal intimacy for something broader but less defined.
In this way, the current Venus-Mars cycle in Aquarius challenges us to re-evaluate our priorities. Are we ready to let go of the deeply personal connections that ground us, in favour of a relationship model that feels more like a social experiment than a partnership? With Taurus pulling us back to earthy, tangible realities and Aquarius urging us forward into the conceptual and detached, we’re at a crossroads. This cycle makes it clear that, in pursuing a liberated love devoid of traditional restraints, we may gain freedom but risk losing the warmth that comes from genuine human connection. As we move through this Aquarian cycle, the question looms: can the coolness of detachment truly satisfy, or will we eventually crave the intimacy and loyalty that only a grounded, Taurus-infused relationship can offer?
A New Era of Intimacy: Detached, Abstract, and Ideological
The transition from Virgo to Aquarius in the Venus-Mars cycles signals more than a shift in elemental focus; it reveals a remarkable thematic continuity. Virgo, the Earth sign of service, duty, and meticulous self-examination, mirrors Aquarius in its cerebral and often detached approach to intimacy. While Virgo grounds itself in earnest routines and practicality, Aquarius operates on the intellectual plane, but both signs share a certain coolness, perhaps a frigidity that prioritises order and thought-isms over raw passion and fiery emotion. Under three consecutive cycles in Virgo, we collectively primed ourselves to approach relationships with caution and a penchant for analysis, learning to discern usefulness over impulse, deriving satisfaction from stability and practicality rather than from messy emotional entanglement. These cycles inadvertently prepared us for Aquarius, which takes emotional detachment a step further, elevating it to a principle of full-blown liberation.
In Aquarius, this detachment from demonstrative entanglement becomes not just a method but a philosophy. Where Virgo clings to structure and the familiar as a means of control, Aquarius sheds these confines, promoting a sense of independence and collective identity over personal intimacy. The Aquarian Venus-Mars cycles challenge us to rethink relationships as projects of intellectual and ideological exploration, rather than emotional unions. In a sense, the three Virgo cycles acted as a rigorous training ground, familiarising us with the notion of impersonal love and practical connection. Now, in Aquarius, we have the temperament and tools to push beyond that, into relationships defined by shared visions, progressive values, and a deliberate disregard for convention. It’s as though Virgo’s careful, structured relationships have evolved into Aquarius’s communal experiment, where emotional vulnerability is a potential liability, and passion is channelled towards abstract ideals rather than individual connections.
In this second Aquarius Venus-Mars cycle, the promise of coolness and detachment as a pathway to connection will be the ultimate test. We are invited to let go of the moralising web of doctrines and expectations that traditional relationships often impose and embrace a more universal, less possessive notion of love. Aquarius teaches us that only by freeing ourselves from these constraints can we genuinely connect—not just with partners, but with a larger community, and perhaps, even with a more authentic sense of self. Yet, this freedom comes with a question: does detachment lead to true intimacy, or are we sacrificing depth for breadth? Navigating this Venus/Mars cycle might force us to decide whether the promise of open, universal connection can truly replace the grounding warmth of person-to-person intimacy or if, in our quest for progress, we’re not just abandoning the very essence of what it means to truly connect, but to be human. At some point down the road, this cycle will force us to confront a brutal choice: to reconcile the primal need for closeness with a cold, unyielding collective ideal that prizes independence over intimacy.
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