Tinkering around on the surface of what appears to be the ruins of a much bigger problem is never going to convincingly fix our personal affairs with others.
True reconstruction can only happen when we have destroyed the source of the problem. The pain we experience in our relationships is deeply rooted in our psychological attachment, usually built upon the shaky foundations of irrational fear.
Fears of abandonment, betrayal, mistrust and mindless control dramas threaten to ruin any hope of finding true happiness and contentment with others.
Look now into addressing these root issues before attempting to patch things up again.
Originally Published ~ 24/04/2015